the hausen boys
last summer, after countless dating discussions, the hausen brothers and i made a goal that in the coming year we would...
 DATE SOMEONE WE LIKED
 that's it.
 this was essentially a two part goal: #1 we had to date someone, and #2 we had to like them.
 i haven't technically acheived the goal yet, but the hausen brothers are both married... to girls they like. so you see, the goal is sheer brilliance. it takes all the psychotic love/commitment phobia out of dating.
 take this goal as your own.
 learn it.
 live it.
 love it.